"The Journey Ends.
There can be no triumph without loss...
No victory without suffering...
No freedom without sacrifice."

~ from the "Return of the King" movie trailer

"I wish none of this had happened."
"So do all who live to see such times, but it is not for us to decide. All that is for you to decide is what to do with the time that is given to you."

~ JRR Tolkien, Lord of the Rings

January 23, 2003: The Battle Begins Again.

July 21, 2003: Hunter's battle ends in the Ultimate Cure

Hunter and Smudge the day they got the latest diagnosis

The sun smiled down and warmed the chilly March day Hunter Atkinson entered the world. His bright and happy personality brightened every room and many lives, and his personal light has never dimmed. Even though his physical presence has been taken from us, his incredible lessons will live on in the many people he has touched over the years.

Please take a moment to get to know Hunter if you are not familiar with him. His entire story is posted here, where until this week the world has been kept updated on his condition.

I have invited all who knew or were touched by Hunter to share their "Hunterisms" - those awesome anecdotes about the things that made Hunter so special, the odd coincidences that brought us all together, poetry, photos, etc.
Please view and add to these Hunterisms!


Hunter had the mind of a born researcher, and unshakable faith. He believed with all his heart that with enough time and the right team, a cure for him would be found, and he did everything he could to aid the effort. Hunter found it frustrating that few put value in the musings of a 13-year-old boy, but he recorded his ideas in what he called his "Cure Book".

These pages are Hunter's original ideas, the result of imagination and his own research.

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Celebrating Life!

On the evening of July 25, 2003, Hunter's extended family gathered together for a pyrotechnics display that would have had this young man beside himself with joy!

Betsy swirls a sparkler for her boy
Betsy twirls a sparkler for her boy


Mariah dances with sparklers  

Hunter's buddies light the first fireworks 


July 20, 2004: Time marches on...

How difficult it seems to believe that a whole year has gone by. The void he leaves behind continues to be felt by all, and still his mother and sister feel that they will never heal. Yet we - his friends and family by choice - joined Betsy and Mariah to celebrate his life this past weekend at a dog show - the WASCUNY July Sparkler - that has historically been "Hunter's show"...one he always managed to make it to, even if it meant a final chemo treatment on the way to the show with the dogs packed and waiting in the car, stopping along the way to flush lines and admisinster treatments. In the days leading up to his death, we found a tiny bit of solace in the joke that Hunter was hanging on just a few more days, as it would be a terrible irony for his death to interfere with the enjoyment of his favorite dog show by his dearest friends.

Please take a moment to enjoy these moments of celebration.
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Preparing to begin the service Jules performing Hunter's Song Maggie o'Neil reading 'The Prophet'
Betsy, Mariah and Smudge surrounded by friends Deb St.Jacques reading 'To All Parents' Smudgie licks away tears Yours truly reading an excerpt from Hunter's message
Hunter's true love - Renee St.Jacques - performing a hauntingly beautiful 'My Immortal' by Evanescence Lighting the luminaria Luminaria in memory of Hunter and others who have battled cancer line the walkway
Let's face it - in the eyes of a 13-year-old boy, it's all about the pyrotechnics! As the sky gets dark, the ground lights up Betsy twirls sparklers high...
Renee wears the shirt that Hunter brought her from Hershey, PA, stating that 'You Never Forget Your First Love'.
Mariah lights a sparkler from Hunter's candle... ...and Jules.... ...and Renee

July, 2006: Not-so-distant memories

Another year passes. The annual celebrations have ceased, but time has yet to take away the bitter sting of Hunter's passing. His birthday and the anniversary of his death remain brutal reminders of different days. Mariah, now the first Atkinson child to reach the age of 14, reaches new landmarks every day with a promising future in the Arts. Betsy marches bravely forward, taking every available opportunity to celebrate her boy. Posts to the guestbook are sporadic but touching - please keep them coming!


July 21, 2008: Hunter's Godmother, Linda, sums it up best in three simple lines:

Time passes

Memories deepen

Love remains

It's been five years that feel like both the blink of an eye and an eternity. We miss you dearly, Rocketman.


 

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